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87 Decisions in 72 Hours: Some Things Should Never Be Left Until the Very End.

Every drizzle rain of Ching Ming. Remembered.

At this time of year, we always find ourselves thinking of those who have passed.

And perhaps we can’t help but ask ourselves: If that day were to come, would we be ready?

In reality, when a loss happens, there is often very little time left to grieve. Because within 72 hours after a loved one passes, families are often required to make at least 87 decisions.

There are many logistics need to be handled, including:

gather documents, search for information, and contact the necessary parties;
notify relatives and friends, arrange the process, and confirm expenses;
and even answer many questions they have never considered before:

Cremation or burial?
Where should the service be held? Who will be the elebrant?
What music should be played? What kind of eulogy should be written?
Where should the resting place be? What should be inscribed on the tomb stone?

All of this must often be handled at a time when a person is least composed, least willing to think, and least prepared.

Perhaps the most difficult situation is this: amid the rush and confusion, decisions are made hastily, ending with a helpless “just keep it simple,” only to be followed later by lingering regret—“If only I had known what to do back then.”

Some decisions are meant to be made in moments of calm.

In Canada, older people are increasingly starting to plan for themselves and bring their children to funeral homes & cemeteries for consultation. Likewise, young generations also plan for themselves and their parents for this eventuality and do not want to be unprepared.

Pre-Planning is not a taboo—it is a responsibility. What would otherwise be an overwhelming set of 87 decisions can instead become organized, clear, and fully manageable.

The Benefits of Pre-Planning

  • Savings: Planning early offers cost savings of up to thousands of dollars.
  • Reduces the burden on your family: Planning your final arrangements ahead of time reduces the responsibilities on your family at their time of distress.
  • Peace of mind: Gain comfort in knowing your plans are ready.

This Ching Ming, a time to honor the past and embrace the future, Arbor Memorial invites you to join our “Pre-Planning” free events.

Valley View Funeral Home & Cemetery

Date & Time: April 24, 6:00 PM
Address: Continental Seafood Restaurant #150-11700 Cambie Road Richmond BC
Event highlight: Cantonese & Mandarin, complimentary dinner

During these events our representatives will guide you on how to Pre-Plan with the benefits of unburdening your loved ones and preserving your traditions,

You can get details on our Chingming special discount and get free ballots for the $18.8K draw*!

Register now for giveaways:

  • Free legal will guide
  • Two basic wills
  • Power of Attorney pamphlet
  • Executor’s Handbook

Valley View, a great choice in Vancouver, BC

Valley View is one of many Arbor Memorial locations in Vancouver, and features a funeral home and a cemetery. Our facilities make planning final arrangements easier and allow you to cherish the memories of loved ones.

Arbor Memorial originated in Canada and has been dedicated to serving the community for nearly 80 years. From a single cemetery in London, Ontario, Arbor has grown into Canada’s largest privately-owned funeral and cemetery service provider, continues to reflect the values that matter most to Canadians: family, compassion and respect.

We believe it’s never too early to consider your final arrangement plans. Because you are not alone in this important journey. Our professionals will bring comfort, love, and compassion to the discussion. Your partner, family members, and close friends are all great supporters to have close by.

Our team of licensed professionals is also at hand to provide you with accurate information and expert guidance. It’s our vocation to help you determine what best reflects your wishes while presenting options that also suit your budget.

For you and your family, please choose Arbor Memorial.

Valley View Funeral Home & Cemetery
14644-72nd Avenue, Surrey, BC V3S 2E7
604-227-8828

*Terms and conditions apply. Contact the cemetery office for details.

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